Big Brother africa Aftermath: It’s war in the Bezuidenhout family. They want Richard to divorce Ricki95 comments

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Posted on 23 Nov 2007 at 5:28pm

could it get any uglier????

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THE love triangle involving Big Brother Africa 2 (BBA2) winner ­Richard and the two women in his life, Angolan contestant Tatiana and his estranged wife Ricki, continues to unfold, weeks after he won the $100 000 (R672 000) prize money.

Now Richard’s family have closed ranks and are urging Tanzania’s hottest celebrity to divorce his wife for betraying and not supporting him during his 98-day stay in the enclosure.

To add more drama to the ongoing saga, last week’s homecoming party by the sponsors to welcome the winner, which was scheduled for later,

According to the spokesperson for M-Net in Tanzania, Lucy ­Kihwele, the party was postponed to give Richard an opportunity to settle his personal life.

“He is staying in a hotel until next week. We want to give him an opportunity to talk to Ricki and see if they can make up,” said Kihwele.

In the meantime, Richard’s ­father, Vincent Bezuidenhout, and his three siblings, sister Linda and brothers Edward and Louis, are all rallying around the BBA2 winner, urging him to part ways with his ­Canadian wife, arguing that she is not good enough for the Tanzanian golden boy.

“Even our neighbours are supporting us on this one. She must go. I have made up my mind, she is not good for the family” said a defiant Vincent, who was born in Uganda 67 years ago. He has five children – three boys and two girls.

The first-born, Brenda, passed away a few years ago, and Linda, who accompanied her brother Louis to last Sunday’s show in Johannesburg, is married and living in America.

Another brother, Edward, is a heavyweight professional boxer, and now doubling as Richard’s ­bodyguard.

Vincent’s mother, Kalinga, is a Tutsi from Rwanda. Cornelius, ­Richard’s granddad, is South African.

Richard’s mother died 14 years ago, making him very close to his father, Vincent.

Cornelius left Pretoria for Kanyonza in Uganda to open a ­diamond mine where he is a ­renowned businessman.

Vincent, who moved to Tanzania in the 70s, is an electrical engineer and has a farm outside Dar es ­Salaam. He says his anger against Ricki was fuelled on Sunday night when the Canadian allegedly insulted Richard as they watched him talk to BBA presenter Kabelo about his feelings for Tatiana.

“Ricki came home so that we could watch the final together,” said Vincent. “Soon after mentioning the name Tatiana, Ricki just hit the roof. She became angry and called him a pig.

“I was not happy with her calling my son a pig. I also lost it. I literally kicked her out of my house and she took a taxi. I don’t know where she went but that was the least of my worries.”

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The elder Bezuidenhout said the only words he heard when Ricki was leaving was that they would meet her in court where she would ­demand half of the $100 000 winner’s cash.

“If he defies our call and reconciles with his wife, Richard will ­literally be placing a noose around his neck.

“Tanzania has lots of beautiful women whom he can marry – or even Tatiana,” he insisted.

“This woman is bad news for ­Richard,” said Linda, supporting her father. “She left for Canada, stayed there for more than two months, only to come back one week before the final.

“She wrote letters undermining my brother, calling him a womaniser. I have one of the letters and I can show it to you,” said an agitated ­Linda.

Louis said when they had asked Ricki to come with them to the ­airport to welcome Richard on Wednesday, she refused. “What type of a wife is she, who does not come to welcome her husband, you ask yourself?” said Louis.

While Richard has asked either his father or brother Louis to speak for him while he recovers from the hangover, Ricki was this week ­quoted in a Tanzanian blog saying she wanted to speak to Richard before giving interviews.

“I’m not prepared to talk to the media about anything regarding my future with Richard, myself, Tatiana or anything else,” said Ricki, whom Louis says has been to Richard’s hotel a couple of times.

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95 Comments

  1. berniceNo Gravatar said on November 26, 2007 at 4:30 pm

    hey babygirl/boy….whatever, mind ur own biz n shut the fuck up!. l hate richard for all that he did in d hse. but that doesnt make what ofu did right. what a disgrace!

  2. TajudeenNo Gravatar said on November 26, 2007 at 6:27 pm

    I now know Richard is from a shameless family. Big brother need to do more in their selection for future BB. This is the worst BB in history.

  3. Big DaddyNo Gravatar said on November 26, 2007 at 6:34 pm

    Lucy:

    You said:

    “This white women also take advantage of our young handsome men”

    So does it make it better that Linda married an old white man so she could get her ticket to America?

    You also say that Ricki should forgive. Let me ask you this. If it was your husband that did what Richard did, would you forgive him and take him back? Do not just say that “I wouldn’t let my husband go on the show.” Pretend that you did and he did everything Richard did. How would you react? Would you call him a pig?

    Should Ricki have allowed him to go on the show? Probably not but that does not mean that she deserved to be as mistreated as she was.

  4. LUCIENo Gravatar said on November 26, 2007 at 7:53 pm

    Big daddy.Ricky chose to trade her husband for cash.Anyone who has watched any of this shows knows its not easy staying with the oppposite sex in a closed environment any where.Thats why Juna forgave Code coz she love him nd was ready to move on.Okay i would not encourage my husband to go to such a show coz since i married him 23 years ago we ve hardly stayed apart.When we travel we go together or vice versa.As Dr.Tutu said money is not everything its the experience that you share with others that count.Richard is almost my son and i see alot in him thats in this generation x.He married too early and is very immature but he grew up and learnt alot in BBHOUSE THANX TO TATI WHO POLISHED HIM.I and my husband were Richiana funs 24/7 and we still support them to the end.We saw it all.Tati got involved at 20 she had not got enough Love they found each other My if this was a couple we enjoyed the reality.THE BIBLE SAYS LOVE IS PATIENT,LOVE IS KIND,LOVE SEES NO WRONG,ETC.It happened do u want us to cry over split milk or forgive each other and move on.Why stress each other and were married for only 4 months.He stayed with Tati 3 months.IF RICKY LOVED RICHARD SHE COULD FORGIVE HIM AND MOVE ON.THIS GUY HAS A LIFE TOO LET HIM SORT HIMSELF AND PLEASE RESPECT THE OLD MAN…….VINCENT U VE BROUGHT UP YOUR CHILDREN SINGLE HANDED JUST SORT THEM I RESPECT YOU AT66 YEARS…..YOU KNOW ALOT…

  5. NormaNo Gravatar said on November 27, 2007 at 7:26 am

    Money is not everything?I dont think Vincent agrees with that statement. Why does Vincent the 66 year old, who we should respect because he is old, make it everything? Should we respect him because he is old or because he is a respectable old man? Respect is earned. It is not a right. The bible says LOVE IS PATIENT, LOVE IS KIND, LOVE SEES NO WRONG. My God. Why do we use these words at the wrong time? Do we expect Ricki do remember this words now? Richard might have gotten infected with HIV/AIDS by having unprotected sex with Tatiana(not that she has it, but that he did not know her status and vice versa) If love does not see any wrong there then lots and lots of people are going to die and leave their children because of this stupid love.

    LUCIE I am sorry this is not a personal attack. I disagree with your statements. You supported Richiana with your husband. Now you wish Ricki could practise the love ‘is patient’ thing. Didn’t you wish Richard could remember the ‘patience and kindness’ of love (for his wife) when he SCREWED Tati in the house? Kind and patient to who?

    Most Richiana fans insisted this was just a game. When the Richiana got out of the house they declared their love for each other. Richard will agree with me that money is everything. That is why he risked so much for the money. But of course the Richiana fans blames Ricki for ’sending’ him to the house. She could have known that Richard is irresponsible enough to do what he did. We all saw how sex crazed Richard is. He was not sexually attracted to Tatiana only. He lusted after all females who were left in the house. That is why he disrespected Ofuneka like that. Vincent must have taught his son that sex is the only way to show his manhood. That is why he said he will fuck all the three ladies and show them that he is a real man. I have a son and I believe I will have failed as a parent if my son turned out like Richard.

    If people supported Richiana, then people should forget quoting the bible. Marriage is supposed to be sacred. Right? Even if Ricki wanted to forgive Richard there is his family. It is not easy (as Richard would say) to be married to someone in peace if his whole family sees you as a monster. Unless they relocate to Canada, it could be better or to some neutral place. As long as that old man has panicked because of the money, there shall be no peace. Richard got married and we shall apply the standards of a married person. I have a cousin of Richard’s age. He is not thinking marriage. Unless of course Richard, like his sister was taught that when you see a meal ticket, keep it. Ricki’s family is rather quiet, I wonder if they supported this marriage? They are not even in the photoes? She needs her family now.

  6. Big DaddyNo Gravatar said on November 27, 2007 at 8:53 am

    Lucie:

    You talk a lot but do not answer my questions.

    1. If it is wrong for white women to take advantage of young handsome African men, is it okay for Richards sister Linda to marry an old white man so she could get her ticket to America?

    2. Regardless of whether you would encourage him to go on the show or not, if your husband did the things that Richard did on television, would you forgive him and take him back like you want Ricki to do?

    Just please answer the questions directly.

  7. Amaka SueannNo Gravatar said on November 27, 2007 at 10:19 am

    Answers to your question….1. Linda is not married to an old white man….she married out of LOVE!!!!! 2. I would forgive Richard…. love is blind…..
    soon to be MRS. LOUIS BEZUIDENHOUT…..

  8. OraNo Gravatar said on November 27, 2007 at 10:53 am

    This family is a mediocre.
    Lucie; your reasoning capacity is so dull.
    Nigerians; Ofunneka is no saint either; she is also a bitch like Tati.
    Ricki you deserve better than this (just claim your money and leave).
    Amaka; I wish you the same pathetic in-laws like these ones (if not you then your daughter).

  9. LUCIENo Gravatar said on November 27, 2007 at 11:13 am

    Big daddy thanx.What if Linda and the oldman fell in love.Are you sure she took advantage of the ticket to America.If u r sure then thats not right.Is there marriage happy or what?do they ve kids?was he married when he married him?thisare the questions i would ask before commenting.
    2.okay i watched it all.If my husband loves me the way i know he does he could ve restrained himself from indulging in what Richard did.I know despite been his fun i agree they went overboard i GUESS ITS THE LOVE THEY HAD FOR EACH OTHER.If then he came and apologized and was genuine not thinking of the other party i would forgive him coz as Christians God told as to forgive so we are forgiven.I know its not easy when you love someone let Ricky decide its her life we cannot decide for her.
    3.ORA.
    You dont ve to say i think so dull thats me as a mother and t5hats the way i see it.

  10. LUCIENo Gravatar said on November 27, 2007 at 11:32 am

    Norma.
    I had not read your comments.You are making sense to me but we must apply our Christianity all the time.okay he messed i agree then let him divorce and make up his mind if he wants to marry or not.If he found Love too bad i really feel sorry that i even wonder if he loved Ricky at all.If you love someone you cannot hurt them that way.Tati was also involved 6 years more than Richard he was married for only 4 months and was i the house 3 months.LETS ALL AGREE THEY WERE 2 HUNGRY MOFOS WHO FOUND EACH OTHER.Did you watch the whole show.Richard was a joker and i dont think he meant it when he said he will bump all 3 till they know hes a man.He was playing the game.

  11. PamelaNo Gravatar said on November 27, 2007 at 12:40 pm

    Hello Guyz!
    The spotlight has been kept on Richard. Now, for a moment, let’s turn it on to Tati. Richiana fans are saying they were meant to be and that Richard should throw away his wife and settle with Tati. STOP FOR A MOMENT AND THINK. Tati dated a man for 7 years. Whatever their misunderstanding was with Gustav, she retaliated by SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER MAN IN HIS FULL VIEW. Ladies, what can cause a woman to do such a thing to the man she loves? I think it might be that Gustav did go astray with some other girls beside Tati. That is the only sin a man commits and you would pay him that way.

    Back to Richard now. Richard has a weakness for women! He kissed Ashanti a few days after she arrived. If he could sleep with Tati in the full view of the one person he loves so much…..FOR WHATEVER REASON…..

    I have the following questions for the Richiana fans:
    Is Tati the most beatiful or the most sexiest or the best at sex IN THE WORLD that Richard will NEVER leave her for another BETTER than her?

    If Richard does go out with another girl BETTER than Tati and brings the girl into their apartment and makes love to her in their million dollar couch and Tati sees him will she FORGIVE him?

    If she paid back Gustav for his sins by sleeping with Richard while he watched and pampering Richard while he watched will she have gotten to apply this method, at that time, again?

    It is said what goes around comes around. Also, every man reaps what he sows.

    Take the time to analyze things more deeply FOR THE GOOD OF your idols Tati and Richard. Give them advise for the LONG TERM not short term benefit. It is then that you will have done them alot of good.

    One final thought: when you think of Tati and Gustav 7 years ago, 3 months into their love life.How do you imagine it to be? Or, better still how was your own love life 3 months after you met that guy or lady in your life? I CAN ASSURE YOU EVERYTHING IS SO HOT AND IT SEEMS LIKE YOU ARE ETERNALLY MEANT TO BE. But do all these great beginnings last the test of time? Surely, don’t you see that using the BBA 2 and half months to base a decision for a “FOREVER TOGETHER”is not very wise?

    Well, Richiana fans, without detracting from the issue please answer me. I am willing to learn from you. That is why am in this forum.

  12. AKNo Gravatar said on November 27, 2007 at 2:43 pm

    To everybody that say Richiana was a match made in heaven: Where the hell did you get that from?

  13. mumsyNo Gravatar said on November 28, 2007 at 9:30 am

    So very sad to see young people hurting like that I mean my Richiana,it is a painfull journey they are travelling though at separate places but same pain , however the point I want to make is that marriage is very sacret, or rather I grew up knowing that for a fact, and like they always say, what God has put together let no man put asander.
    The big question goes to Richard: Do you really LOVE RICKI for real or now its just pure obligation?Some of us have seen you in action being yourself professing your love for Tatiana,and we have learned a lot from that experince.

    I appreciate you as a human being and I know some of the tartrums you two wee throwing in the bb house were a lot of frustration and just not knowing how to contain what you were experiencing it was quite explosive and I j\know yu would not want to throw that away,the under tones of Tatiana right now are quite clear she will be waiting and I hope you are making provision for that, however sad this may sound we know its true, I understand that yes you and Ricki have reconciled ,question is this really what you want bottom of your heart and promisee to never ever rememer the passion that happened in the BB house?THEN YOU ARE FAKE and I have indispeakable hatred for you, I may just be representing a small fraction of your fan or rather people in Africa and abroad who for the time yu guys were at the bb house supported and rayed for the both of you.I would urge you right now not to take any hard core decisions regarding your feelings fo rthe two ladies, take it easy for a while see what happens at the tour and the make a decision that will define cause right now ther is a whole lot of confusion that is happening in your inner most.Be still and ask God for his guidence you need it the most right now,
    Tatiana you are a wonder girl, thank you for the love, thank you for the peace that you have potrayed in that house it was never easy, do not give a statement until you have spoked to Richard face to face very important, I am glad you have had the oppotunity to be alone with your thoughts and if you were not bluffing us too, in due course you will talk to us and for that we appreciate you,and also for patiently showing Richard the true meaning of of LoVE we know that you guys did not se yourselses but we as viewers we bear testimony to that.
    I am so sorry Ricki but you know that maybe Richard never really LOVED YOU much as you did maybe, he has now met his soul mate and emotional tag , do yourself a favour and accept and move on thing will never be the same agin ther has been a lot of drama aroungd your marriage which has not been good for either of you. I know it hurt the first time and it still does , give him the space and lok else where were you might find you soul mate Richard is definately not I am sorry I imagine your pain.
    I love Richiana like crazy, I would like you two to experince each other in a good way God willing, and I am hopefull that you will not make mistakes and live sory lives forever.GOOD LUCK GUYZS TAKE IT EASY EVN IF ITS NOT EASY!

    Lots of love

  14. BabygirlNo Gravatar said on November 28, 2007 at 10:22 am

    I don’t have anything personal against Richard and Tati (his heavenly made love, as a lot of you claim). Richard came into the house claiming to be married to a woman he loved so much and couldn’t wait to get back to, yet in the full glare of the whole world he professed love to another woman and even made love to her.

    The same Tati he claimed to love, he heaped insults on (still in the full glare of every1), the way I have never seen any1 in-love do, now his family members are telling him how wrong Ricki is for him (as if they were in a trance when Richard and Ricki got married) and are encouraging him to get on with Tati.

    Except I didn’t see right but I am sure I noticed at some point Tati didn’t find his insults funny in the house and from her facial expressions sometimes it was obvious she couldn’t wait to get rid of him, the same Tati I read these days visits him in his hotel room (does this have anything to do with the money?..i wonder).

    If you guys are encouraging them to forget their partners b4 BBA and stay with eachother, fine! a lot of you claim, ‘THEY ARE MEANT FOR EACHOTHER’ some1 even quoted the bible to support her claim.

    My point is if Richard disregarded the woman he claimed he married out of love so much, why wouldn’t Tati face the same treated, nothing makes her more special, he has insulted her so much already, dumping her at the request of his (sick) family wont cause him a heartache. She’ll suffer a worse fate. My suggestion to Richard is that since he and his family no longer dim Ricki fit for him, he should give himself time to grow up, he is so-so childish his attitude irritates.

    Tati on her part, should look elsewhere for a mature man, except she is so determine to eat from BBA cash no matter what, bcus believe me, her fate will be worse that Ricki’s own in the hands of the Bezuidenhout family.

    Ricki, braze-up girl! Richard is not the end of the road for you, he’s proven not to be man enough for you, you will surely meet a man that deserves you. I don’t think you have done nothing wrong by allowing your man go for BBA, don’t listen to those people that compare you to Code’s wife, Code didn’t go as far as Richard did.

    And as for the Bezuidenhout family, you will all meet you own in life, especially you Linda, if you treat a fellow woman the way you have being treating Ricki, you will get your full dose of heartache, believe me, what goes around, come around.

    For you Richianna fan, pls lean to say the truth some times, stop giving people a false images of themselves and leading them astray so you don’t have anybody’s blood on your head.

    I rest my case!!!

  15. KefNo Gravatar said on November 28, 2007 at 12:12 pm

    Is Richard and Ricky back together? Pse people update me as I really wish they solve their problem and get together since they really married not to divorce.

  16. OraNo Gravatar said on November 28, 2007 at 12:19 pm

    Babygirl; well said with no contradictions

    Mumsy: “THEN YOU ARE FAKE and I have indispeakable hatred for you,” “Be still and ask God for his guidence you need it the most right now,”
    What a contradiction????????????????????????
    I am not sure if I should rather excuse you seeing that your english is so rotten. You could have written all these things and only to find that the meaning is different.

    How can you hate Richard for choosing Ricky and yet you say God must guide him? What if God guided him to choose Ricky? mmhhhhhhhhhhh

    If you have any brains left, please utilise them. Damn!!!!!! You write a long senseless story. Richiana fan; my foot………..

  17. mumsyNo Gravatar said on November 28, 2007 at 1:17 pm

    Ora,you dont have to like me ok, you dont .If you dont like my opinion that is ok, do yourself a favour never insult me please.I like Richiana a lot, and if you have a problem with that swallow it ok..

    And yes I wish Gods guidanec for Richard which ever way He the almighty directs Richard.

    As a matter of fact,I mean every thing I said unfortunately for you!!

  18. Amaka SueannNo Gravatar said on November 29, 2007 at 9:31 am

    Ora, no hard feelings….. you can wish me anything! it’s only a wish….. you can’t hold the hands of God.

  19. JustineNo Gravatar said on November 29, 2007 at 1:39 pm

    Hey all !!!!!!!

    The love triangle is finally dismantled - Richard and his wife are back together , there is only one woman for Richard and its RICKI .

  20. mumsyNo Gravatar said on November 29, 2007 at 4:50 pm

    InshaAlla,Justine it is still early to gome to conclusions like that!

  21. PamelaNo Gravatar said on November 30, 2007 at 5:05 am

    Hello!
    Baby girl, thanks. I concur with you wholly. Ora, your questions are great.

    I am waiting for Richiana fans to answer my questions. It’s interesting that none of them has answered. That goes to show that people are just talking with their hearts and not their heads. But in life, usually things go according to eternal principles that the creator has put in his universe. We can never break the law. We actually usually break ourselves on the law.

    Richard is FREE to dump RICKI and get on with his “soul-mate”Tatiana. But as Babygirl has pointed out, what happened to Ricki and WORSE will happen to Tati. The family that praised Tati will call her WHORE and every imaginable abusive name they can find. For Ricki, they have said things like she is “not good enough” but not whore. Implying, she does not have a history to be refered to. But Tati has! She walked out of her 7 year relationship and had sex with a stranger on international TV. When she becomes old and unwanted in the Bezuidenhout, they will dig up these things. At that time Mr. Vincent Bezuidenhout will say “african women do not have sex on international TV….”

    That is just a tip of the iceberg. So, my advise to all Richiana fans is that they should THINK again. Those of us not encouraging Richard to dump his wife are not hating Richiana. Seriously analyzing issues, we see that it is better for Rich to sort out things with his wife, work on his shortcomings and move on.

    Be blessed all contributors on this web site.

  22. KefNo Gravatar said on November 30, 2007 at 6:04 am

    I pray day and night that Richard and Ricki reconcile. As I have said earlier on when they got married, made those vows in front of the congregation, the pastor and the almighty they never said a word about divorcing but that they will only be parted by death. God have mercy on them.

  23. OraNo Gravatar said on November 30, 2007 at 8:14 am

    Richiana fans: sorry to all of you. Richard and Ricki are back together, praise GOD. If you don’t believe me please visit this website :http://www.tvsa.co.za/default.asp?blogname=bbmotherland2&ArticleID=6709. Now God has guided Richard, don’t you think Mumsy?????????

  24. mumsyNo Gravatar said on November 30, 2007 at 9:11 am

    Stale news Ora.what did I say, he will be guided to do the right thing if he asks for guidance, and if getting back with his wife is, then so be it.

  25. JustineNo Gravatar said on November 30, 2007 at 9:34 am

    Hey guyz , now that we have all spoken and insulted and managed to get Richard and Ricky back together lets us worry about getting Tatiana and Gustav together , I still believe Gustav will find it in his heart to forgive Tatiana and look at BBA2 as a thing of the past , besides how many of you have on numerous occassions cheated on your partners , it may not have been on national TV but is still doesn’t make it right .

  26. longfellowNo Gravatar said on November 30, 2007 at 1:49 pm

    No ways…!this is absolute shit!stupid Oldman.your son goes on to have sex with girls on national TV and you proud of it…?what kind of a papa are you?

    you richard fucker,wherever your momma is,she is ashamed of you….!you have crossed a line.would you be happy to see a guy make love to your wife on national TV had she been to big brother?definitely NO!

    you see..!so don’t think that $100,000 is money.it will disapper not long before you notice.so be clever SUNSHINE……..

  27. BabygirlNo Gravatar said on November 30, 2007 at 3:07 pm

    I agree with Justine, enough of insults and name calling. About bringing Tati and Gustav back together, if there is an avenue where we can do that, lets use our loving African hearts to try to. Am certain that to a large extent they didnt bergain for what they met in the house, even though Tati went to have laods of fun with the boys in the house (as she said), am sure she never bergained to frolick with a married man, be that as it may, lets try to use the forum to show love to fellow Africans and discuss issue that will add value to us individually and collectively.

  28. SHARONNo Gravatar said on November 30, 2007 at 7:16 pm

    Sheeew, enjoyed reading the above.

    Let’s not for one second forget that BBA2 took place in a confined area. We sat back in the comfort of our home and watched, and watched, and watched. We could get up and go outside for a walk, switch on the radio, visit with friends, and then go back to watch.

    As much as I LOVE the BB shows, I could never be a housemate. What transpires in the house, where romance is concerned, will never survive in the real world.

    I wish the last 3 housemates the best of luck. They need it.

  29. RAYMAREENo Gravatar said on November 30, 2007 at 7:39 pm

    Part of me would like to see Ricki and Richard back together, but somehow I feel she is far too good for that sick family of Pigs. They make such an issue of Ricki calling Richard a pig (while she was HURT, SAD and angry), but what about Richard calling Tatiana a whore. Which is worse????
    As for Richards sister, well she is a real ????!!!!!!!!

    Money makes people greedy and Ricki should look at the whole family and decide if she wants to end up like that or move away and find someone more suited to her better type of upbringing. She should also realise that living with a jealous man is more than hell on earth and that no man is worth it if he is a jealous man. True love is trusting.

    But oh no Ricki, I do believe you are better off without that lot of PIGS.

  30. Phillip kakuru NewmanNo Gravatar said on December 1, 2007 at 4:20 pm

    Dear
    Richard’s family hope you remember me as being a close
    family friend. My uns9olicited for advise is that Richard should
    be given time to work out things with richi and that Richi
    should be forgiven for all that she has done. Richard remember
    itcould be easier to find 100000 USD to a good wife like Richi
    Once again forgive her

  31. AkinNo Gravatar said on December 2, 2007 at 4:01 pm

    Typical Africans - so ignorant and stupid. How can u marry a woman, go into a game show and disgrace your wife by acting the fool with another woman, then come out and expect your wife to “act the fool” by standing by your side?????? Africans piss me off. No wonder it’s a third world continent.

  32. KefNo Gravatar said on December 3, 2007 at 10:20 am

    Lets forget Richard’s family. They are a sick bunch. Just wish Rich and Ricky sort their differences as well as Tati and Gustav that’s all I am praying for day in and day night. I know the almighty will guide them and pardon their sins.

  33. Linda BNo Gravatar said on December 4, 2007 at 3:47 pm

    Hi All
    Most of your comments are valuable, the matter of the fact is that both of them will never be happy the reasoning being:
    1 you never trade marraige for money.
    2.Ricki will never know what Richard is thinking of especially when she is not aroung trust has been broken and to rebuild it they will always fight.
    3.Even though it was a game some part where true feelings how do you snap out of that and move on.
    4.Rickis’s relationship with the inlaws(us) will never be the same only prentending towards each other and that is a fact.
    5.Richard will be busy with his studies and when will he be able to concentrate on his marriage and other fame stuff that will come through will keep him busy. ricki will still complain about his unavailability.
    6. Marriage is a commitment, i always preached that, but my brother thought it is a an easy road.
    7. All of you do not even know how did they meet and how quickly the marriage was arranged as if they were rushing for something which we still questioned today. we had to support but we knew there is more to it. some of the things needs to happen naturally not forced hope you can read between the lines and get your answer.
    8 they will always be haunted by the past which is the 3 months of BBA2 and they will struggle to move ahead. knowing my brother with his impatiencies i just wonder. my last words to them and to you all richard’s fans i wish both of them the best i will support any decision they make but i know deep down and trust my feelings some big shit will happen!!!!

    Love and Peace

  34. JNo Gravatar said on December 4, 2007 at 7:55 pm

    Linda it not for you to tell the world how they met, can you reflect for a moment and put yourself in Ricki’s shoe? It will be good for you to be builder rather than destroyer. It seems to me that you will find it difficult to forgive some one. Remember that are married yourselve even though you did not tell us how you met with you husband. If Ricki called Richard a name in the presence of your father which I am not saying is right, Richard did worst than Riki calling him a name, moreover it is her husband and not yours. Linda, you will gain a better fame if only you encourage your bother and his wife to forgive each other and move ahead. How are your sure that Ricahrd and Tatiana will make it?that fact that they stayed in Big House for three months does not make them for live forever remember eveybody was there to take the money home. The devil you know today is better that the one you don’t know. Time heals, with time they will move on. Linda I just want to encourage that in whatever thing you do in life be a builder.

  35. NtaolengNo Gravatar said on December 5, 2007 at 9:20 am

    Linda please who are you to determine Richards marriage? How they met and how they got married is nobodys business. Even yours and especially you Hitler like Father. The fact is they got married. You don’t like Riki because she is not attractive and sexy like Tatiana. Notice that I said Attractive not Beautiful. Tatiana is ugly but attractive and that has gone to all the Bezuidenhout’s heads that their darling son has managed to catch an attractive woman like Tatiana. He married Riki and please leave them be. Let them try and patch their marriage and if at some point it fails, at least they tried. It will only survive (Their marriage) if Richard can truly put his all in it and not pine for what he thinks is a good catch (Tatiana). It can work believe you me if only both of them REALLY work at their marriage without outside influences like you the Bezuidenhouts and Tatiana. Personally, if Ricky was my daughter, I would have taken her and hidden her so far away from this evil family until she forgets about that Hyena Richard. The Bezuidenhout are stupid and they really piss me off.

  36. Linda BNo Gravatar said on December 5, 2007 at 11:27 am

    No.84 and 85 i am a builder and will always be as i have raised those boys to manhood and who they are today. Put yourself in a mother shoe and just reflect back that if you find a women who because very manipulate to your son who is years younger than the women (usher’s case the musician) how do you as a woment event think and feel? when you know that he is at a vulnerable stage and you take and advantage of his situation. I said whatever decision they take whether wrong or right as always wrong with Richard i will support my brother not Ricki. He is blood whether he is making senseless decision i will still back him up. so Tatiana i never talked about her not even mentioned do not put words into my mouth that is your own decision and comments not mine. I said what ever happened in the house for the past 3yrs they (both R and R) will never forget it and it will always come back and cost them as husband and wife. you saying all other things about R and T it is your own opinion not mine. whethr we are stupid as Bezuidenhout and piss you off that is your own opinion the fact is you do not know us and we are happy they way we are that is what made us to be were we are today. i do not need fame as fame did not make me i was born famous and i will die being famous fame found us in this planet. you love us or hate us it is your choice we stick together till death do us part as the BEZUIDENHOUT FAMILY.

  37. JustineNo Gravatar said on December 5, 2007 at 12:28 pm

    I think Ricki should just enjoy the Gazunga and get pregnant - things will change for the better .

    Any word on Tati and Gustav ??????????????

  38. StanlocciNo Gravatar said on December 5, 2007 at 12:58 pm

    Linda u r such an insensitive BITCH!!!!! i understand u r married to a much older man..Richard,ur sick bro is married to an older woman…r u all cursed in ur family???i’m sure u guys r in a marriage of convenience..in actual sense,its not really bad to enter into a marriage of dat nature,but when u do,pls be humble n save urself any form of scandal..u guys r needy,inshort u r less priviledged so u must be humble in order that society will always favour u…u all open ur dirty mouths and insult Ricki (who was obviously Richard’s mainstay) Linda u r not getting any younger…if u were married to a virile young man of ur age group he would have made sure u steer clear of these controversies…dats d more reason i believe ur hubby is senile and doesnt have control over u…imagine ur old man who should possess pure wisdom,getting muddled up in the whole brouhaha…something is inherently wrong with ur lineage..God help u all….

  39. BNo Gravatar said on December 5, 2007 at 1:39 pm

    Linda is it really you or some impersonating bitch who acts bitchy just like Linda Bezuidenhout??

  40. NtaolengNo Gravatar said on December 6, 2007 at 12:32 pm

    89. Whether she is Linda Bezuidenhout or not, she really thinks and spew venom from her mouth like the real slut Linda B. You Linda B. claim you were born famous. Well, you get your fame through notoriety. Don’t for a second think this fool Richard is famous. He is very notorius. All those who claim to think Richiana was or is a love story made in heaven, believe you me someone is not happy up there. Richard is a son-in-law from HELL. His dad, Vincent is the leader of a sanatic cult (the Bezuidenhouts). I stayed away from all web to try and forget about Africa giving this cheating, stupid, empty-headed moron money but for Rikis sake I keep logging to see if by any chance Richard has come to his senses and is back with his wife. Only to find his equally empty-headed sister still boasting about his intellectually retarded brother like Riki is so wrong in hurting. Linda, maybe it is better for you to just get off the web. You infuriate. Your old aged husband must be suffering so much from your “we are a beautiful family” ego. One day you and him are truly going to know what Riki is going through when one of your children gets a moron like Richard. I don’t wish Richard anything good in the next year and next and next together with the rest of that satanic cult called the Bezuidenhouts.

  41. RAYMAREENo Gravatar said on December 6, 2007 at 6:24 pm

    I fully agree with you Ntaoleng. Richard must learn that the wheel turns and that what you sow you will reap one day. Lets hope that when that does happen he has grown up and is mature enough to realise it.
    The more I think about Ricki, I think that if Richard has not made some decision to save his marraige by now, she should just move on and know that while it may be heart breaking she will get over it and one day look back and thank God that she was able to get out of that sick, satanic cult as quickly as she did. She can even thank Big Brother for opening her eyes for her.

  42. NawalNo Gravatar said on December 6, 2007 at 7:34 pm

    My heart is with Tatiana. Tati don’t worry about Richard or Gustav. You are going to make it big on your own. Please come out and show us that there is life after bad and misjudged relationships. In Africa men get off blamefree after an affair and women bare the brunt forever. Please Tati show people that an African queen is someone who picks up the pieces in style and moves on without throwing the damzel in distress drama.

    Tatiana forever

  43. BNo Gravatar said on December 7, 2007 at 7:47 am

    Tatiana and the Bezuidenhouts can all rot in jail for all I care!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  44. UcheNo Gravatar said on December 13, 2007 at 8:20 pm

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  45. wrascibiaNo Gravatar said on March 24, 2008 at 3:24 pm

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